How to Start a Relationship with Jesus When You Don’t Know Where to Begin
Have you ever felt a longing for something deeper—like there’s more to life than what you see?
Maybe you’ve heard people talk about having a relationship with Jesus, but you’re unsure how to get there. It can feel intimidating to start, especially if you’re carrying doubts, questions, or the weight of not feeling “good enough.”
But here’s the truth: Jesus isn’t waiting for you to be perfect. He’s just waiting for you to take a step toward Him—exactly as you are.
If you’ve been wondering how to begin, you’re not alone. Building a relationship with Jesus is a journey, and every step—no matter how small—matters. Let’s take that first step together.
1. Start With a Simple Prayer
Think of prayer as a heart-to-heart with Jesus. You don’t need perfect words or a script—just honesty. Imagine you’re talking to a friend who already knows everything about you and loves you anyway. Share what’s on your heart—your worries, your hopes, or even the fact that you’re unsure where to begin.
Here’s a simple prayer you can use:
“Jesus, I don’t know where to start, but I want to know You. Help me to see You in my life and guide me as I take these first steps toward You.”
Prayer isn’t about perfection; it’s about connection. The more you share your heart with Jesus, the closer you’ll feel to Him.
I still remember the first time I ever prayed—I was so awkward. It sounded something like, “Hi God. I’m sorry this is so awkward. I really don’t know what I’m doing or what to say. I don’t even know if You can really hear me, and maybe I’m crazy.” But I showed up and was honest with Him. I told Him I didn’t know how to pray, but my heart was burning to know Him.
And you know what? He showed up. He continued to guide me, and now I talk to Him naturally every single day.
2. Get to Know Jesus Through His Word, Not the World
The Bible is like a love letter from God, filled with His promises and the story of His love for you. If you’re new to the Bible, start with the Gospels (Matthew, Mark, Luke, and John). These books bring Jesus’ life and heart into focus, showing who He is and how deeply He cares for you.
Here are a few verses to reflect on:
Jeremiah 29:13 – “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.”
John 3:16 – “For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life.”
If reading the Bible feels overwhelming, try starting with a devotional or a Bible app that breaks it into manageable, meaningful pieces.
3. Find a Community That Feels Like Home
You don’t have to walk this journey alone. Surround yourself with people who love Jesus and will cheer you on as you grow in faith. Look for a church, small group, or online community where you can ask questions, share struggles, and feel supported.
If stepping into a new environment feels scary, take it one step at a time. Maybe start by attending a low-pressure Bible study or connecting with someone you trust who shares your faith. Community is a beautiful way to experience Jesus’ love in action. And if you need someone to talk to, I’m here for you too. <3
4. Invite Jesus Into Your Everyday Life
A relationship with Jesus isn’t just for Sundays—it’s for every moment. Invite Him into your day in small, meaningful ways:
Whisper a thank-you for something good that happened.
Ask for His guidance when making a decision.
Take a few moments of silence to reflect on His presence.
The more you include Jesus in your everyday life, the more natural it will feel to lean on Him.
5. Be Kind and Patient With Yourself
Building a relationship takes time, and that includes your relationship with Jesus. You might feel awkward or unsure at first, and that’s okay. Jesus meets you exactly where you are—whether you’re full of faith or full of questions. What matters is that you keep showing up.
6. Remember That Jesus Already Loves You
Here’s the most beautiful truth: Jesus already knows everything about you and loves you completely. You don’t have to earn His love or prove yourself worthy. He’s been pursuing your heart long before you ever thought about Him.
This truth is what changed everything for me in my relationship with Him. Knowing I didn’t have to be “enough” because His love already is—that’s what set me free.
Final Thoughts
Starting a relationship with Jesus is less about doing everything perfectly and more about showing up with an open heart. Whether it’s saying a quiet prayer, opening your Bible for the first time, or reaching out to a supportive community, every step you take brings you closer to Him.
Jesus sees you, loves you, and is ready to walk with you. You don’t need to have all the answers—you just need to start.
So, what’s your first step going to be? There’s so much joy waiting for you on the other side.
Praying for you always,
Laura <3
